My wonderful brothers, future husbands and fathers, it is the love I have for you that has earned you this letter. You want to understand that your girlfriend abi? Good! Llet me give you a shocker...YOU CAN'T. You can never fully understand any woman. Ghen Ghen....Oya, having established that, let us change the title of this letter to
LOVING HER SUCCESSFULLY.
Now that's more like it. To love her successfully is to be PATIENT. Understanding her dynamic nature is key to patience. Understanding that half the time she raises her voice, it is not because she looks down on you, doesn't respect you or is trying to control you. No! Sometimes when a woman even talks at all, about anything concerning you, it is because she still cares. Be very afraid when she is no longer talking. She has given up on you. She raises her voice in pain, fear, confusion, and love (of course, this doesn't rule out the women that are just plain rude and uncultured.)
To love a woman is ATTENTIVENESS. No matter what that woman is saying, oga, open your ears. Don't let her say "you're not even listening to me" or "what was the last thing I said?" That's the beginning of the end ooo! A woman's heart is a deep ocean...if you make ignoring or not listening to her a habit, you would make her doubt herself, you would make her feel she has nothing to offer, or doesn't make sense when she talks, or she has lost her grip on you and that charm which originally attracted you to her...and indeed a host of other degrading thoughts. Before any woman cheats, she will whine, complain, nag and tell you everything you're doing wrong. She's like the siren that sounds from afar before you even see the ambulance
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